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I would, because I'm not interested in being with someone who doesn't want to be with me. I am not their mother, I'm their partner. They are allowed to live their life however they want to. And if they do develop feelings for someone or find someone attractive to the point that it's interfering with the relationship, they should be able to tell you about it and discuss it openly. And you shouldn't be the one going around like a crazy person questioning every single interaction they have. Cause if you're at that point, why be together in the first place? You obviously think you aren't the best choice for them, and that they don't value the relationship they have with you.
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Adults are so messed up. They are full of betrayal, anxiety, " Committed love" , judgement, meanness, hate ,and lengthy discussions over unnecessary matters. It seems like whole mystery shrouding the adulhood that glorifies it ,is a myth. We are told to " Grow up" in false hope of becoming our better selves but everything goes downhill for most of the mankind.
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As a queer person, these videos neeever make sense to me. Not that queer ppl can't also be insecure but these discussions feel so hetero to me. If you can't trust your partner to have a sleep over with their best friend, no matter the genders, the relationship is not stable, genuine or healthy.
Like either I'm bringing insecurity into the connection, in which case it's on me to work on and self reflect, or my partner is not making me feel loved and appreciated enough. Either way, the problem is not the 1 on 1 time with their friend.
I feel so sad for people who think it's healthy to restrict your partner's access to friendships. It's very strange to me. Many don't realize how much unresolved baggage they are carrying around. Then, they project it on their partner and blame them for feeling insecure.
This is the problem when we get sold the ideas that a) our romantic partner should be the center of our world and vice versa and b) romance is more important than platonic connections.
It isolates us from ourselves and our community. People are wired for connection and need friends. I would never tell someone to cut out their bestie or stop hanging out with them 1 on 1 just bc we're dating.
Lastly, if someone decides to cheat, they'll do it even with strict rules in place. It won't matter if you control them, they'll find a loophole. But not everyone cheats, that's the thing.
The key is to soften up to love, learn to trust your partner fully and in case they do decide to betray you, it's them who is the unhealthy person. Then you leave and move on. Simple. No need for power dynamics.
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Maybe it's because we've all known each other for like 13 years and joke that thet are both my partners, but my male best friend and girlfriend hang out one-on-one all the time and it doesn't bother me. I trust them both and there are some shows I'm not interested in watching that they like watching together.
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I remember going to a Europe backpacking trip with tons of people and a couple fought because the girl was crying that her hubby was going on a romantic walk up a mountain without her. (She quit halfway thru and went down) The guy was very fit so it was a piece of cake and he went along with another cross country girl racing to the top. As someone who walked up the mountain myself…..that shit was NOT ROMANTIC, it was horrible. I wanted to cry and be buried by the cows 😂
The cross country girl apologized (ridiculous) just to appease the insane girlfriend.
It was at that moment that I decided, if I can’t trust my boyfriend with another person why am I even with them? That can’t be healthy for either of their piece of mind
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I always wonder about these things because as a pan woman, every person could be a "potential partner" in my partners eyes! So am I just never allowed to be with anyone else alone, ever?! 😂 like, just ask me if I'm attracted to the person and if I say no, it should be fine. If I'm worried about catching feels for someone, I'd never put myself in a situation where my partner would have to worry about that! You gotta have trust as well as boundaries
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It’s common sense. Before a guy asks a girl if she’s okay with him staying a night with his girl friend, would HE be okay if his girlfriend stays a night with her boy friend? For me it’s how much effort would you put in to make your partner feel safe in the relationship. I don’t know about others but that’s just me.
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@gen1130
1 year ago
Why would my partner want to go traveling with their female friend over going with me? I wouldnt be worried that he'd physically cheat, but it sounds like there are bigger issues or emotional cheating
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