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yes. as a trans person, i understand that deadnames are triggering but there are obviously going to be things that will always have your deadname on them, so its important to be able to develop tougher skin and not let it get to you. your mom obviously cares about you and is trying to respect you (especially by covering it around you!!) but it costs a lot of money to remove and replace an entire tattoo.
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Damn, what a selfish child. A dead name is a dead name for a reason, itās the lose/death of your before self so of course that would take time for you mom to process and come about to, but to go up to her and, not ask but, TELL HER to remove a tattoo given to her by her daughter to show love to both of her children is atrocious behavior.
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Yes and the fact that he said that he didnāt think his mom had depression and was just being lazy like get over yourself and besides itās not like your mom is out to get you or something
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Someone with major depressive disorder here: saying depression is preventing you from doing something is not an excuse. Not having the energy to do something due to depression is not an excuse. You also have to remember that just like you, your loved ones also have to possess the loss of their daughter and come to terms with it while celebrating the birth of a son and vice versa
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Omg the world doesnāt revolve around you!!! Your mother obviously loves you, especially if she was willing to get a tattoo with your and your sisters name before she got to know you. If itās ātriggeringā to you, get tougher skin. You cannot and should not beg and guilt your own mother into getting an extremely harmful and expensive surgery for no reason. So disgraceful and disrespectful.
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Yes YTA, as someone who never goes by my deadname my mom also has my deadname tattooed she changed and covered up my siblings names but never mine idrc cause it's her body she loves me in her own way the name will always be there it shows her love for me i am her first born after all and i would never want to take that away from her it's her body her choice and it ain't doing no harm.
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Yes you are...why does everything have to me about you. You changed yourself boohoo... doesn't mean everyone needs to change themselves to accommodate your feelings. Grow up
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"Its triggering " it mught be but that doesn't give you the right to change your mother's body, you only give dead names power if you let it trigger you
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I understand itās triggering to see your dead name, but itās a name. Itās a word. Your mom dealt with this well- saying she needed time, and she tried her best to cover it up. Accept that and stop complaining- the world doesnāt revolve around YOU
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As someone who is nonbinary and has had a name change...the intent or continued usage is what matters... Your parent can still grieve the person who was that name. A tattoo would be painful to remove and as you get older pain receptors sometimes get more sensitive... I could understand if she was constantly dead naming you without acknowledging your current name but that old name probably meant a lot to her...my dad named me after the fates of destiny (mother misspelled my name though) and when I got older I realized I was nonbinary I started going by another name. My dad still sometimes messes up but apologizes because he named me the way he did because the day I was born he vowed to stay sober from drugs for the rest of his life. To him, me being born was the fates saying he had to stop. So I know that he will always call me that dead name but I also acknowledge that it has profound meaning to him and I'm not going to take that away from him... Maybe think about why your parent keeps that tattoo other than the pain and depression... If she's not intentionally dead naming you or calling you slurs and hurting you intentionally then you're basically being entitled...
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It is understandable your deadname triggers you but you have the ability to... Guess what? GROW UP! You have changed your identity, there will be bumps on the road. Your mother shouldn't have to remove a tattoo just because you want her to. The tattoos on her skin, not yours. You can't force her to remove it, especially not if its a beloved gift she got.
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In my opinion, I have been diagnosed with depression and anxiety and that is true why Iāve been diagnosed by a doctor that does not give you a reason that you canāt remove it but I feel like it doesnāt matter that much. Iām not gay or trans or any other sexuality except for straight and a female so I have no clue what that is like, but I used to be lesbian whenever I was younger I give you a reason to demand something from your mother. You should be happy that she got something tattooed on her body. That is very hard to takeoff and even if she did, there will be scars forever so that she did something like that about the just be happy that she has something that resembles you on her body
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As a trans man: yeah, YTA, that tattoo is not just a tattoo of a name but it's rather a sentimental tattoo. If my mom did that I'd just shut tf up instead of asking for her to cover it up LET ALONE CHANGE IT
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Whining to the extreme. Crying out for attention. If you want to be trans, thatās your decision, but donāt try to make the world revolve around you because of a word thatās triggering. Be an adult and grow out of that childish behavior. Your mom still loves you but getting a tattoo removal is number one very painful and number two very costly donāt make her suffer just because you feel ā offendedā.
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Yeah theyāre the asshole. Iām a trans person and my mom also has my deadname tattooed on her arm, along with my brothers on her other. I wouldnāt go out of my way to tell her she needs to change something on her body just because it made me uncomfortable. It doesnāt really even make me personally uncomfortable, and if their mom is making an effort to cover it for them thatās already her doing her best. Tattoos hurt and tattoo removal I hear is worse
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Op needs to back up. If transitioning is what they need, love that for them, but they can't expect their mother to be not have feelings about it. And the tattoo has deeper meaning to her, since it was made by her other daughter
Not to mention that the mom didn't have a say in her kid's transitioning, so what gives the kid a say in what their mother does with her body?
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I think if she's covering it up she definitely doesnt mean any harm
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First off, it's her body. Second off, maybe that's how she needs to process it. It can be kind of sad for people close to you, such as the person that birthed you to see that you're no longer the little girl they raised. It's not a bad thing, but it can be sad to witness a big change like that. I know on your end it's uncomfortable knowing that your dead name is still there, but she is at least making an effort to cover it up for you. If I were you, I would pay attention to that, and appreciate the effort she feels that she can make. I know it's still hard on you, I'm not ignoring that. But she still loves you, and I hope you still love her, just focus on her as a person, and not an outdated tattoo
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Coming from someone thats trans and has got depression 100% TA,op clearly knows nothing abt depression and doesn't care to learn abt it and in general seems pretty entitled?? I get seeing your deadname is hard but its a tattoo,its hard to remove not just physically but mentally as it has so much meaning and was made by her daughter? It's much easier for op to work around and overcome the pain/angry they get when they see it,easier not easy
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@scottscoolgayroommate
3 months ago
yes. fellow trans person here; it shouldn't be about the name, but the intent. there's a difference between your dead name being on something and deadnaming.
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