open dyslexic mode

There’s a silent weight that comes with being “the strong one” in the family.
The one trying to break cycles.
The one chasing clarity while others stay comfortable in confusion.
The one who keeps giving… until there’s nothing left to give.

Let me tell you what I learned the hard way:
You cannot lead a family out of dysfunction while still playing the role of the one who always needs rescuing.

Real growth started when I got honest about the role I played in staying stuck.
Not because I was lazy.
But because I didn’t know better.
Didn’t have the tools.
Didn’t trust myself long enough to be consistent.

But the moment I forgave myself for what I didn’t know, everything changed.
My decisions got sharper.
My priorities got clearer.
And I finally stopped chasing every opportunity that sounded good but had nothing to do with my purpose.

So if you’re carrying the torch for your family’s breakthrough…
Protect your energy.
Own your role.
And keep the main thing, the main thing.

You’re not just breaking curses.
You’re setting a new standard.