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I would ask my boyfriend to hug me while I was on my period, he told me to wait for his match to finish. I think he played 2 or 3 more because 45 min. (more or less) later, he came and I was asleep with tear marks on my face. He told me this the next morning and He didn't apologize or anything, he just said he felt my face all wet when he tried to hug me while I was sleeping, makes me think he didn't understand where that water came from.
Edit: Thanks a lot for your comments, even the "cruel" ones, they really helped me, especially thanks for those who understood me. I know they're strangers on the internet, but doesn't mean their opinions are not valid. Hopefully now my relationship is better, we talked and made a couple of changes.
I did wrong putting my feelings publicly on a YouTube comment, but I'm happy that I got to see for everyone's part of the story. ❤️
To anyone that's going through this, I wish you the best, be strong, you're important too, you deserve love aswell. Take care. ✨
2nd Edit: Oh boy, just to clarify, I'm sorry, I did wrong 😿 I was a crybaby and well yeah, he didn't want to be bothered. I already apologized and all, I was really selfish, and when I wrote this, I was feeling really bad. But just some points: He was playing Smash, those that last no more than 3-5min, and well I heard him accept a couple more matches and that made me feel worse after he said he'd be "right after this match".
I'm not dependent the most of the time, I enjoy being alone with my things as well, but I get really sensitive when I'm in my period and I just wanted attention. I asked for it the wrong way, I ended up crying and that wasn't the best reaction. Now on my last period, I gave it a try and now we play a lot together when I'm in pain, he says is better to forget about the pain itself, and well it worked for me.🥺✨
Hey, but thanks for reading, I've learned so much, from you, from him and from myself.
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Some people need their alone time. You absolutely can not expect your significant other to be there 24/7 all the time. We all need to respect each others boundaries and communicate with each other. Because sometimes your significant other just wants to spent some time to themselves and not respecting that unless it’s an absolute emergency can be harmful.
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If it's a one off thing or they forget only once in a rare while, that's fine, it happens. If it's consistent and happens every time, it's a problem you should address, and if it doesn't change you should find someone else instead of tolerating it.
Edit: yall I'm so glad to see others in agreement. This happening infrequently isn't worth throwing the whole partner away over 🙄
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Might be a shock, but guys are human too. They need time for themselves. And some don't just magically know what you need, especially if they where never comforted and learned just to live with pain. And if you test a confident guy, he'll ignore you because he might feel you're gaslighting or playing games with him. Girls will often do stuff just to test the reaction. Once he knows he won't feel like trying to fit your perfect picture.
You're welcome
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I’ve read some comments and I wanted to point out: The problem is not about he wanting to play videogames instead of cuddling in that moment of vulnerability of her wife, the real problem is he said “Ok, I’ll be there in A MINUTE”.
Unless you’re a toxic partner, we all can understand if you’re not available at the moment and need to finish whatever you’re doing, but don’t say you’ll be there in a minute, when you’re gonna to take an hour; it makes the other one feel deceived and like he/she doesn’t matter at all. That is what really hurts. Just be honest.
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I’ve noticed a great majority of the comments are from girls that have experienced this. Coming from a girl who struggles with hyperfixating + video game addiction, I genuinely lose track of time when playing video games. It never comes down to me not wanting to hang out or give someone attention, it comes down to the fact that if I don’t finish something that is challenging to me or has taken a lot of work to even come close to completing it bothers me until it’s finished.
I’ll take breaks, and I can 100% step away any time I’m not doing something major, but otherwise? I’ll try to play for an hour or two and end up playing for 5-6 hours. Even if I check the time, even if I set an alarm or something, etc. This isn’t an attempt to excuse me doing this, but recognition that there are ways you can work around it if you can recognize what causes you to start prioritizing a game over something important. Since I’ve realized that major sections of a game cause me to hyperfixate, I always make sure to save those parts of a game until I know I have no other plans.
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@zyzzsdisciple4956
1 year ago
Accept that the guy enjoys playing video games, and also accept the girl's need of comfort in her rough times. It's all about balance and communication.
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