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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Frequently reminded of the bare minimum provided, delivered begrudgingly through gritted teeth.
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Went through all of this!!!!!!!!!!!!
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This! 💯 Setting boundaries = Punishment, too! You can’t have peace with these peopl
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Yes! And still finding I put my own needs aside as if not important.
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Thank you. I just found your channel yesterday and Im so happy to have context for my situation. Im still dealing with my parents and see how they have continued the same patterns since I was a child.
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They are like broken record, i did this, i did that while those are normal things parents do for children.
But all theirs is so "big, great, important". 🙄
Blah, blah, blah
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Thanks to Narc Mom, I grew up to be a lone wolf... would not accept anything from anyone, for fear of becoming indebted to them. So messed up.
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Amen. This is exactly my mother!!!!🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀
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Yes, I have spent my life accommodating other people's needs. Lost myself completely. Hopefully it's not too late
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This was my entire life. If I wasn’t happy with the treatment I was getting from them I would be told how much they had changed from their families, how bad they had it as kids and the sacrifices they made. They would make it out like I wasn’t grateful for anything they done, leaving me feeling like I was a really bad person and there wasn’t anything I could do to change that.
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Oh my gosh TOTALLY my mom!
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You are describing how the N. Parent treats their children. It doesn't end. They stay this way.
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Yes, they do. 😂😂
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Yes. And it’s never ending. Now I just expect it. That way I’m never disappointed because I get what I knew they would give me and I don’t lament what I’m missing. This mind trick seems to work for me, decreases my anxiety about it all. And from this mind, I don’t try to please them. Kind of an “oh well” attitude.
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Definitely true with both my parents. My mom especially was extremely vulnerable and passive. Naturally no one expected anything of her. So any needs that were urgent as a kid fell on my dad. If it wasn’t in his worldview he’d just try to bounce it back to her. She’d cry and then it would disappear again. I even went out of the family for help as a kid but it didn’t help. After that I was certain the authorities abd the school knew about it and lived in even more fear. Nobody at school probably did know, but my fearful attitude only made some teachers and even the principal seem to find contempt for me. Al they would join students in complaining about how o smelled bad and even dose “we’re going to fix the air conditioning in here” such is life. Things are better today after the election results. I think I was carrying the tensions of the whole neighborhood. Daylight savings and shorter day lengths have messed with me and the cats are going nuts. So I’m short I’m triggered big time but heading down the slope towards more peace. I’m a trauma bond person so that’s in the mix too. Including trying to come back and fix what I never even messed up for others. After awhile you get really used to being mistreated and this election has almost no change imo in what’s happening up top except it makes the neighborhood happy. But it ain’t normal Thanks much and enjoy the day
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My stepmom was this way. “I do all this for you. I give you so much, and you still continue to treat me like trash and not give me what I need.” The lesson I learned from this is to not be like this. To act mature. My stepmom gets a thrill out of being a baby, unlike me. She gets a thrill out of being immature unlike myself. I’m going no contact with her, and I’m ok with that. I don’t need her. I’m healing myself. I’m in therapy. I have a biological mom who gives a damn about me, I have a husband who gives a damn about me. I’m working to have a relationship with my dad and my little sisters. I don’t care that my dad is married to my stepmom, I don’t care that my little sisters are my stepmom’s kids. They deserve to be a part of my life, and my dad loves me and so do my sisters.
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It’s every single time.
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Does it count when they tell you they didnt want to birth you but was forced and telling you what a burden you are for living?
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My father is different, he has been telling me for many years that in his time it was more difficult to get into college than now, and then only the outstanding got in, and now there are diplomas for money, insinuating that I am stupid and worse than him because I graduated. studies that had to be paid for.
Another time he says that he studied for the final exams only before the exam, and I know that I studied for years, giving up entertainment in difficult home conditions.
Another time he says that he got into high school only because he was not accepted anywhere and the pedagogical and psychological counseling center arranged for him to be admitted to high school because it was compulsory to study at his age.
Still another time he said that in communist times everything was arranged through acquaintances and he got into free studies thanks to his acquaintances, because he was not accepted anywhere.
This information is taken out of context and you have to put it together yourself. However, it doesn't stop him from talking loudly in front of me that now anyone can get a college diploma if they just pay, and in his time only exceptional people could graduate.
At the same time, he has been unemployed for about twenty years, although he lives in a large city...
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@Salomão-y6m
2 weeks ago
It’s great to see that I’m not alone in facing this.
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