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Entitled people always put me off.
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I'm sure it's been said a dozen times in the comments already, but they should have mentioned controlling women as something they also feel entitled to. Being able to control a woman is seen as a right of passage by unhealthy men. And now that more women are opting out of relationships because they can tell that these men are damaged, they are frustrated on yet another front.
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I'm so scared of them and what's happening to them. I at once hate them and feel compassion for them but never act on it because it has proven dangerous. I'm scared of them, I feel bad of them, and I'm also so angry at them... If I know something is I'm not letting any hurt me or any person I care about, and I care about a lot of people. So if they're doubling down, we're tripling down. This didn't have to be like this, but they're bringing it to themselves.
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A core element of performative masculinity has always been v10lent extremism towards women.
Overt or covert v10lence.
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Itâs interesting to see the cycles of violence repeat during times of swift social change, I always think back to the Evil May Day riot of 1517 (as just one example)
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What a sad, messed up, dystopian world we live in đ we havent really evolved in thousands of years. If anything, we are worse in many ways because we have access to more knowledge and resources than ever, yet continue to be savages. Maybe the end of our kind wouldnât be such a bad thing after all. Like what are we really contributing at this point other than violence, hurting each other mentally and physically, and destruction of the earth? Iâm tired of it
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If men didn't abuse women and children, many women wouldn't even be so strongly fighting to be independent financially and security wise. (Not saying all or even most, but the amount of women I know who would be perfectly fine not being the breadwinners but do it just to protect themselves and their kids from men's disrespect and violence is not negligible)
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Entitled to dominance (over women and children).
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I wish more people read Margaret Mead's books
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Can we also talk about patriarchy's role in making women violent towards women as well?
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This makes so much sense.
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Too bad they canât, you know, grow as individuals, meet the moment, and collaboratively work with all genders to try and understand and navigate this new paradigm in a way that is healthy.
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Society feeds this entitlement. Women and other marginalized groups for that matter have for centuries or even millenia, even now, struggled to define themselves and find purpose and value in societies that treat them intrinsically as less.
If men don't succeed it isn't because they are men, it is because of something else. Either they are not trying hard enough (internalizing) or it is because of others (externalizing). Because as men they are supposed to have these things.
For example, motherhood is supposed to be the woman's goal. Yet women have always known the struggle of infertility, carrying to term, having the resources to care, being married, the offspring being a daughter and so on.
Men feel entitled and confused because they've always been entitled to the actions (man of the house, career, family legacy) that defines them.
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It's time for a shift in gender perception, I tell you! We are entering an era (if we make it) where one's sex really should not have any meaning outside of"the bedroom", bc... why should it?
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Nobody is stopping you from âfeeling like a man.â Isnât it weak and desperate to need someone elseâs validation at all when it comes to your most core values?
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I wish I could say âjust keep women, children, and everybody that has nothing to do with your being denied things out of itâ, but I donât agree with violence. This isnât some dystopian world. Jobs and grocery stores and houses are still here; theyâre just harder to acquire. If you canât get a job, that doesnât mean go beat up the next interviewer that declines your application. And if you have a span of failures, that definitely doesnât mean go assault people. This is a frustrating time for a lot of people, but knocking out somebodyâs teeth isnât going to get you hired or a loving relationship. It gets you arrested. You should treat people as well as you would want to be treated. Nobody wants to be assaulted.
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Provided for their families, protected their homes, and defended their homelands are all very vague reasons. What about the men of the past who did little to support or abandoned their families, were the source of danger to their homes, and committed war crimes in the name of âdefendingâ their homeland?
Think thatâs another issue with the roles of âmasculinity.â They are often too vague and can be misinterpreted by men as to what they should do to âproveâ themselves to other men. âProvide for the familyâ could mean just giving scraps of their yearly allowance to their wives and do nothing else to help. âProtect their homesâ could mean control everyone in the household because everything and everyone could be a threat (except for you, the âprotecterâ, of course). âDefend your homelandâ could mean eliminate all of your enemies, even civilians who are innocent in war, to make your enemy surrender.
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Men and women have to learn a new way of communicating with one another.
Having open honest and transparent conversation and actually putting those solutions into practice is what's going to change the dynamic between men and women. The lies, manipulation, and the coercion on both sides has to be put away with and truth and honesty must prevail.
Men also have to address the own misogyny that happens amongst themselves as well. Men and boys can be very cruel to other men and boys who don't fit a certain type of masculine standard such as machismo or being overly athletic. Men have to be willing to stop fighting amongst other men and seeing other men as competition too.
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Or Peggy Reeves Sanday's books
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@glszq4
1 month ago
When women don't have to be financially dependent on men in order to have their basic survival needs met, they look for more than survival in their partner. A version of masculinity in which men want sex from women but don't actually like women because that would be somehow unmasculine is so deeply unappealing. Women now have the ability to opt out of seeking partners like this. Some men really don't like it. Not the men worth having, imo. But some men.
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