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Oh you bet. I had a surgery scheduled and met with the anesthesiologist right before the surgery and was given a calming sedation when the chief surgeon comes in and at this point I was waiting for the two other doctors to come in and it was at this point when he tells me he canceled the two other doctors and wanted to do the surgery himself. I freaked out and was trying to scream and take my IV out and get help because I did not trust this doctor alone as he was very narcissistic. My husband came in once he heard me from the waiting area. After much commotion he was able to get one of the doctors who was to be in the surgery even though she was in lecture at the time. She was surprised because she was told I canceled with her. This is a very prominent hospital in an Ivy League school in Connecticut. Because I was already prepped for surgery, I was talked into going ahead with the surgery. It was a huge mistake because my surgery was botched. I will never ever go against my instincts when a doctor goes against what I chose for MY team of doctors to do MY surgery and he cancels it. I was completely silenced. I have NOW HAVE PTSD from it.๐ข
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Absolutely! I have learned from my past medical trauma. I do not hesitate to speak up and advocate for myself now. I have been waiting for 6 months for my appointment with a good endocrinologist about my enlarged adrenal tumor. I chose to fire my last endocrinologist because he or his staff lost my MRI results & his nurse practitioner flat out called me a liar and was very rude when I told her that I had my tests done & had the results from my MRI on my patient portal.
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When my doctor showed me that they practice flow chart medicine without being able to adjust for personalized treatment, I ran out of the office. "Trust but verify" is my motto. I do a lot of research regarding medications and treatment options before I agree to anything now. What happened to "Do no harm"?
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I had a world renowned surgeon make a huge error during my surgery that put me in a coma and I was technically dead for 7 minutes. Since then, I have horrible PTSD around any surgery and his mistake has led to many more surgeries. I find it rare to find anesthesiologists that actually listen to me and proved medication beforehand to help with the anxiety and sheer terror I experience with every surgery. I find you have to advocate for yourself and if you have any trepidation about a doctor - FIND ANOTHER DOCTOR! Your peace of mind is worth everything.
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The problem with a lot of trauma survivors is that we've realized that advocating for ourselves puts a target on our backs. The last thing we want to do is put a target on our own back whenever we're dealing with someone who literally has a knife up against us. Them pretending that that's not a thing is the biggest reason people don't advocate for themselves. Because, if doctors asked, patients would tell. But if patients speak up and doctors get annoyed, it just reinforces ignoring your instincts, and learned helplessness begins to set in. The longer this goes on, the harder it is to break free from the belief that no matter what you do, things will never get better.
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I have learned to work hard to follow my instincts even through I have quite a success rate but must constantly fight for basic recognition that my instincts are ro be taken seriously. Not just for my own benefit but also theirs and their success rates!
I just had the case today of a doctor confirming that my instinct that's something isn't normal with my scar is indeed correct, though we're yet to find out why. But at least I can now be referred to surgery to remove the part in question and possibly see if there's any visible problem.
Foe a person who had nothing but local anesthesia on few occasions, it's hilarious that I found you while suddenly facing the 5th round of general anesthesia within 2 years ๐
(which Propofol via mask counts towards, too, right?
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@jadenrhoden4709
3 months ago
Spot on sir!!!
I struggle to trust providers, it's hard to find genuine doctors who care. Im confident, and had it confirmed by another provider, is I'm being abused by the providers actions. Having a chonic illness I have learned to not trust most doctors, but only to go with my gut essentially. After almost 8 years, I'm still getting neglected, abused, discriminated, and it hasn't ever stopped. This anesthesiologist is an amazing provider!!!
If you have had lots of medical trauma like myself, just know there are good providers out there. I found an amazing one, that understands frustrations, argumentative, are apart of my medical ptsd. If yall find a good provider hold on to them, you would be surprised how hard they are to come by, unfortunately.
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