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Some of the people saying no, no, not me, or criticizing him are precisely the ones that need to PAUSE and take a moment to reflect. He is sharing his being vulnerable and generous, to share insight into his own personal journey that may help others on theirs. His thoughts are meant to be considered on a deeper level to help you grow. If you immediately reject against them that is a sign you have a wall up of your own that you should take a look at to see what itâs protecting and if its leading you to an area you need to work on. We are all here to learn and grow. When you quickly shut things down you are doing neither.
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Matthew Hussey explores that the guilt he felt after ending relationships often masked deeper emotions, particularly disappointment. He shares a conversation with a therapist who suggested that focusing on guilt was easier than confronting the real disappointment about not finding what he deeply wanted in relationships. This deeper insight highlights how complex emotions can intertwine, making it challenging to address the root cause of one's feelings.
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No....I just feel guilty for no other reason than I've hurt someone.
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Omg I just thought about this and this is so real guilt is like a very prominent feeling for me and I just realized that a lot of it is disappointment and feeling broken
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Why can't it be both? It feels like both for me to varying degrees
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The sword cuts both ways. If you are not authentic about your intentions, it's not going to be good.
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We are all fundamentally flawed to varying degrees. Thereâs plenty of fish in the sea, catching the right one is sometimes a lifetime goal.
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This sounds like a cope. Also like a way of feeding low-key narcissism.
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This rings so hollow for me. I had a therapist who would routinely say things like this that just did not resonate at all. It was as though he felt he knew more about what was going on inside of me than I did. Anyway, as others have said: it can be both... Very simple. Rejecting someone who loves you is a horrible experience. And if you care for them on some level, it can be deeply painful. It's called empathy. There doesn't necessarily have to be some hidden "real" emotion that's rooted in your own self interest. It's very common to reject someone and feel awful about the pain you caused them. I've experienced this many times. I actually prefer getting rejected over rejecting someone else.
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Well said...Hmm, disappointment.. ruined people not broken people or remorseful beyond an unreasonable amount
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Needed this one. thanks
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If a therapist made that interpretation of my love life and inner experience, they would be wrong. This is a great example of therapists offering their totally subjective opinion as though its fact. Therapy can be really problematic.
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Disappointment hits different
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Wonderfully said. â¤
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SheeshâŚThis one hits home
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This is really I feel guilt when I should be focusing on my regret most of the time
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Main character syndrome. The epitome of having no idea you're being a narcissist. It's always about you bro.
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When you care about someone and do something that causes them pain unless youâre a sociopath youâre going to feel guilt about it itâs not disappointment you have made a difficult decision that involves someone else
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Then you think you are broken. Thats key.
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@vippakyun7516
2 months ago
Idk I think it's the guilt of hurting someone plus the guilt of not being satisfied with the person
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