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Uploaded At Sep 11, 2024 ^^
Top Comments of this video!! :3
Some times it worked for me telling my son to say goodbye to the toy, and "see you soon!", and my son went to the toy and said "I love you so much! Bye!" And kissed It. And we leave in peace...
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You handled this perfectly, not only getting him to understand that you said no and that’s not going to change but offering ways to still make him happy, rather than yelling at him you spoke calmly and made sure that his feelings were expressed in a healthy way and comforting him. Amazing job mama.
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This is a great example of gentle parenting. It's not saying "yes" to everything. Also loved how calm you were, you didn't lose your cool.
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As a teacher, I THANK YOU for teaching your child that “no” means “no”. I cannot tell you how many incoming students I have who have not been taught this yet by their parents, and it makes their lives SO HARD in school/later on in life. 😢 once I asked a boy “ what do you think I mean when I say ‘no’?” And he said “maybe!” It broke my heart. It makes my job so much harder and it hurts their ability to socialize with peers. So thanks
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So refreshing to see a parent not give in to a child's tantrum. Getting used to disappointment is a part of life. A toy is not integral to happiness but love and support is.
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THIS IS GENTLE PARENTING, HAVING BOUNDARIES, RESPECTING AUTONOMY, AND SHOWING CONSISTENT UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND SUPPORT
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THIS IS GENTLE PARENTING PEOPLE 🗣️… too many people out there assuming gentle parenting is being soft or giving in. No, no, no! It’s setting boundaries and rules while having compassion for a child’s feelings and development
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You're a parent who validates your childrens' feeling and treats them with respect. Excellent job Mama.
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She handled that so good. Some mothers be screaming at their children. She showed so much love instead of screaming at him. Thats how mothers need to be.
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The way I screamed “PERIOD”!” when she said “I’m still not going to buy it” I love it!!! Great work!!!👏🏾👏🏾
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I really like that she shows empathy this is a mom who is actually really doing something
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I like that u said "we're not going to talk and cry about it anymore" we're often scared into thinking we can't say this to kids but fact is, u don't have all day to be standing there negotiating. U had already spoken to him, he was now in a calmer state and starting all over again will just reignite the initial emotions and next minute he's on the floor kicking and screaming lol.
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Great job!! Perfect example of gentle parenting. So many people think it’s “oh you give your child whatever they want” but it’s exactly this!! Maintaining boundaries while still acknowledging feelings and helping child to regulate emotions. Great job mama.
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I flat out told my toddler son that we don’t have the money for it today. We have to budget and plan for those purchases. He knew. Today he’s chief actuary for a major company making big money and he STILL budgets for things. He’s 38. I’m very proud of him. You have to explain money to kids at a YOUNG age. They’ll follow. Show them money when you get home. Get out the $1 bills and quarters. Have fun with it. They’re never too early to learn math and budgeting.
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When I was younger my mom would tell my brothers and I “this is a needs trip” and once in a while we got to get one want within budget. This did help us know the difference between a need and a want. And even when you really want something it’s still not a need.
I do this now with my own kids and it minimizes the tantrums.
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Good parenting right there. No yelling, no whopping and no madness. Great and safe parenting there ❤
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Dad here. First time my kids had a tantrum in the store over something I picked them up and walked out of the store. That was the last tantrum they had in a store.
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@darwilson826
6 months ago
I LOVE that you stuck to your “No”. Too many parents do not. Good job mom
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