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Top Comments of this video!! :3
I honestly caught myself doing the first thing a little to often lately... at least the texting part. And its kinda weird cause because of that I'm making myself worried to scare away people and it just makes things worse and I gotta hold myself back even more...
On top of that I started second guessing myself about when I should or should not write something like 'have a nice time with your friends' when I know she will go out do to do stuff with them cause we were talking about it a few days prior...
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Hypersensitivity is a trait of neurodivergence. I have adhd, and Iām always trying to be better. That doesnāt mean I donāt deserve to give and receive love in a romantic relationship. I always try to say something when I have hypersensitive thoughts to avoid it building up into resentment.
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I was a "Love Bomber" once and didn't even knew I was a red flag in this relationship. I loved her so much but she just stopped texting me. Few months ago (2yrs after end of this relatopnship) her friend told me that my ex broke up with me 'cause I was a "Love Bomber". This is heartbeaking and one of the reasons why I have depression. This make me blame myself all the time that I could be someone like that...
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Me and my current boyfriend love bomb each other despite only being in a relationship for a few months. Half of our conversations are saying how much we love each other and love being around each other, and we both constantly cuddle when we are around each other. We're also both neurodivergent (We both have ADHD and Autism), and don't know any other way to express our feelings. We kinda cling to each other but we're also completely fine not being around each other or not talking for a bit, and we're fine when the other person does other things without us. We just kinda express our love differently than most people, and that's ok
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I dated someone with these exact red flags in high school. It started out sorta nice, but it quickly became an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship ā almost physically. I was miserable and stayed with them for almost a year because I thought I could help them. Iām a bit of a people pleaser and an empath which isnāt always the best like in these situationsā¦ But I knew it was time to get out of that relationship for a while and surprisingly, in the end, it was a mutual agreement.
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Iāve never been in a romantic relationship before, but the first oneā¦ I tend to cherish relationships Iāve had for a long time. I also need some time to open up and reveal the real me: my hobbies, interests, beliefs. Iām quite aloof most of the time and I really donāt approach people myself. Iām either nudged or people approach me. I expect a potential partner to work the same.
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Let's not get carried away in labeling everything as abuse or as a sign of an abuser. Not all character flaws are signs of abuse/abusers, they can simply be things that a person has an opportunity to work on, and a relationship provides that opportunity. Yes, they are things your partner should take into consideration when dating, but they should evaluate if it's something that can be worked through together, and not just simply take it as a deal breaker or simply as a sign of something much worse than what it really is. NONE OF US ARE PERFECT, AND WE SHOULD NOT EXPECT EITHER OF US TO BE.
Stop normalizing victim mentality and abuse labeling! These need to be used for when they truly are relevant!
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@Psych2go
10 months ago
What do you guys think? Let us know in the comments! You can watch the full video right here: https://youtu.be/RqXoCQZgFU0?si=AIEjl2EH0xfMebGT OR click the video title bottom left corner
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