Narcissist Lack Object Constancy
23 videos • 1,138 views • by Mindset Therapy PLLC Narcissist lack object constancy. They cannot hold good and bad views of you in their mind at the same time. No matter how much the narcissist likes you one minute, as soon as you do something which they feel has wronged them, they will immediately move you into the spot of someone they need to punishment. The narcissist punishment tactics are endless but can include the silent treatment, gaslighting, and narcissistic rage. Object constancy is how people can respond to stress in their life without falling apart. For the narcissist, because they lack object constancy, they cannot see good and bad at the same time and this is why they appear to be unpredictable. Object constancy in the relationship is necessary for it not to be chaotic. In these videos I discuss object constancy and how the narcissist lack object constancy.