The only way you're going to be happy on this earth is if you connect with your earth body spirit.
The spirit is essentially dead in all of us. We give it life by loving ourselves and this awakens the spirit. It gives way to being able to enjoy other spirits. Life is not about money, or anything else, it is about nature and the natural elements of the universe.
When you see someone you don't like, it is most likely because their spirit is dead inside a living organism. Unless they find some meaning in life, they will continue to feel that way and others will most likely not be attracted to them, unless they are like that themselves. If someone is miserable, then they find other miserable people, and vice versa.
Apathy is a derivative of what you understand of yourself and see that in others. You simply refuse to accept them as human beings for the reason they are below what you feel a human should be.