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09:33
Avoidant breakups are NOT normal breakups
05:10
How a narcissistic parent taught you to be ANXIOUS
04:47
Avoidant cycle of toxic shame
05:21
Avoidant future FAKING 💔
03:31
If the anxious attacher was honest and self aware
04:39
The anxious preoccupied attacher
09:26
The avoidant didn’t love you
05:47
The busy busy avoidant 🐝
03:12
Physical intimacy with a dismissive avoidant
07:38
Avoidant breadcrumbing DAMAGES your brain! 🧠
07:09
Do avoidants ever REGRET losing you?
06:30
HEALTHY partners can give fearful avoidants the ICK
06:33
You didn’t lose the avoidant…… THEY LOST YOU!!!
06:08
How to “win” the avoidant ex back
07:06
If dismissive avoidants were open, honest, and upfront right from the start
06:10
Why relationships with avoidants FAIL
06:00
Avoidants and the “PHANTOM EX” 👻👻👻👻
04:44
The avoidant felt emotionally unsafe with YOU
09:32
The eight stages of the dismissive avoidant relationship cycle 🔁
04:15
Top 3 dismissive avoidant TRIGGERS
06:40
Why avoidants can walk away so EASILY
05:17
When anxious dumps avoidant
06:43
When it’s time to WALK AWAY from the avoidant
09:58
Top 5 avoidant RED FLAGS to look out for early in dating
07:27
S*x with a dismissive avoidant (physical intimacy)
06:12
When the avoidant IMMEDIATELY jumps into a new relationship
07:36
Friends with benefits & situationships usually involve avoidant (especially DA)
06:36
The #1 avoidant RED FLAG 🚩 🚨🚨🚨🚨
05:35
Why you keep making EXCUSES for the avoidant’s behavior
09:57
Dismissive avoidants vs fearful avoidants (what’s the difference?)
03:01
The avoidant vulnerability HANGOVER
05:32
When the avoidant discards you for a SECOND time 💔
08:41
Narcissists are AVOIDERS (but not avoidant attachers)
09:50
The avoidant “bait and switch”
05:24
Dismissive avoidants fear intimacy AND engulfment (here’s why)
05:16
Are you IN LOVE with them or are you IN ANXIETY with them?
09:02
Avoidants PREFER toxic partners (and feel safer with them too)
06:19
If the avoidant could be open and HONEST this is what they’d say
06:35
Are you anxiously attached, or are you fearful avoidant?
07:58
The SECURE way to handle an avoidant pulling away
04:04
Avoidant breadcrumbing (validation seeking)
06:46
How do I “make it work” with the avoidant?
05:32
Dismissive avoidants and the “fear” of commitment (and why they can commit to SOME people, not you)
07:03
Why avoidants are so SELFISH in relationships
03:01
How do you get avoidant to change?
05:47
RESIST the urge to reach out to the avoidant ex (no happy birthday text!)
03:53
When the avoidant blames YOU for THEIR behavior
05:47
Dismissive avoidants and conflict (never a good time to talk)
05:27
The dismissive avoidant catch phrase: “I don’t know”
04:45
Lack of closure from the avoidant
07:28
Avoidant deactivation (stone cold eyes)
06:02
How do avoidants process breakups? Do they think of you?
08:18
Should you give the avoidant a second chance?
07:17
Top 5 signs that it’s time to WALK AWAY from the avoidant
08:20
That chemistry with the avoidant was a RED flag
09:59
Avoidants tend to have PREDICTABLE relationship histories (and childhoods)
03:01
When secure dates avoidant (yes it happens!)
04:46
Dismissive avoidants are addicted to the novelty of new love
09:41
Hold BOUNDARIES with the avoidant!!!! (and what boundaries ACTUALLY are)
04:33
Don’t send your avoidant ex that emotional text!